Glen, 29
What have fireworks taught you about dating?
If you feel like something’s going to blow up in your face, you need to turn around and run the other way as fast as you can.
I want my boyfriend to talk dirty during sex, but it’s something his crazy ex asked him to do all the time. How can I ask him to do it without bringing up bad memories?
I can relate with this one. There’s no way to avoid setting off bad past-relationship memories, whether they’re sex-related or not. You need to help him remember that this is a different relationship, with a different person who cares about him. Some things may be the same, but it’s a different and better situation.
Why should I date a fireworks salesman?
I would have to say the best reason to date someone who’s in the fireworks industry is that we have the biggest balls.
My boyfriend wants to try role-playing, but I laugh when I think about it. How can I avoid embarrassing him when we’re actually doing it?
I don’t see any reason why laughing during role-play would be embarrassing for either party. The whole point of role-playing is to have fun, explore, and fulfill a fantasy. You should just dive in and not think about it. You never know what kind of exciting, new thing you might end up liking.
I’m unemployed, so money’s tight — what sex toy will give me the most bang for my buck?
One of those cheap electric toothbrushes. You can get those for under ten bucks and it will start your clit on fire. You’ll love it so much.
My boyfriend disappeared for a week. No calls, no email. When he came back, he said he was visiting a friend. Should I worry about this?
Visiting a friend? He was banging a friend. If you suspect your significant other is cheating or doing something that would be inappropriate for your relationship, odds are they are. You need to confront him. If he stumbles through his answers, he’s lying. You need to ditch that guy and find somebody better.
What’s the most overrated erogenous zone?
I would have to say the butt. It really doesn’t serve much purpose.
Tamara’s an idiot. The clitoris is “overrated”? It’s crucial to the female orgasm.
Dee commented on
Jul 07 09 at
3:08 pm
Wow Dee - I’m amazed you can call someone an “idiot” because they have an opinion you don’t agree with. I think Tamara’s point was that just because someone knows where the clit is doesn’t mean they know what to do with it. Plus it is a little “on the nose” no pun intended. Like in the Monty Python movie when the kid suggests the clitoris for foreplay and the teacher scolds him for “stampedeing to the clitoris,” and instead suggests a kiss on the neck.
Bob commented on
Jul 31 09 at
5:58 pm
