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What’s the best way to incorporate foot-play into sex?
It can start off very simply. Begin with a nice foot massage and work your way up. Be observant to how your partner responds to your touch. The rest will come naturally.

Describe the perfect foot.
In general, small, soft, slender feet are preferable to large, wide feet — “man-feet,” if you will. Perhaps this is why women continue to squeeze their feet in shoes that they know are too small for their feet.

My boyfriend really wants to make a sex tape with me. I want to make him happy, but I’m nervous about how I’ll look on camera. Any tips on how to look sexy, but not slutty?
As far as your feet go, nothing beats high heels when it comes to making your figure sizzle. However, I do not recommend wearing high heels routinely. That would be like a nutritionist recommending Häagen-Dazs! High heels place your feet in a weakened position and can cause foot problems. Wearing high heels should be thought of like having a hot fudge sundae occasionally: it’s a decadent treat. The key word is “occasionally,” and you should add to that “briefly.”

My boyfriend is super-jealous when I talk to other men, though he’s a sweetheart normally. After some prodding, he admitted that his last two girlfriends cheated on him. How can I calm him down? I don’t want to stop talking to other men altogether!
Sometimes a simple gesture can speak volumes. Try putting your arm around him reassuringly when you talk with other men. Or be sure to brag about how great your boyfriend is in front of your male friends.

My ex is getting married next week. Even though we ended on bad terms, he invited me to his wedding. Is he extending an olive branch or just being cruel? Should I go?
Forget the past, and go just to wish your ex well. Regardless of his intentions, a party is a party. Have fun!

My mother loves to flaunt her much younger boyfriend to my entire family. I think it’s ridiculous for my forty-five-year-old mother to date someone as old as her son. How can I tell her she looks foolish?
I’m afraid there’s no way you can tell your mother that she looks foolish without offending her. Take a different approach: start dating someone in high school. See what she says. It might jumpstart the conversation you’re looking to have with her.

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