Have a question? Email erin@nerve.com. Letters may be edited for length, content and clarity. Dear Miss Information, Hope u r well! I am so happy to have found your site! I have a female friend who I have opened up to about all my fetishes. She knows that I am submissive and a cross dresser. She got...

Mike White produced and appears in Gentlemen Broncos, the new film from Napoleon Dynamite director Jared Hess. He’s also worked on a large roster of beloved comedies, from Freaks & Geeks to School of Rock. What can screenwriting teach you about dating? I tend to write in the arena of awkward...

The Source: Rev. Aaron Dumas, Tell Me Pastor, Jamaica Online Star The Dilemma: “I am twenty-six and I met this thirty-one-year-old man a year ago… We only have sex twice a month, as he makes excuses to not make love to me… I love this man but I know he is depressed. I have suggested...

I’m a twenty-year-old girl, and I’ve been dating my boyfriend, who is twenty-three, for two years. From the get-go, he has known that I am bi, and like most straight guys, he’s happy to be with a girl who likes girls. The thing is, I am too shy to go out and hit on a girl. Getting...

The movie: The notoriously bad and gratuitously sexed-up Showgirls was universally panned when it came out in 1995, but has since evolved into a camp classic. Taking sex scenes to that hallowed place where the improbable becomes ludicrous, Showgirls wraps its exploitation around your basic trumped-up...

Have a question? Email erin@nerve.com. Letters may be edited for length, content and clarity. Dear Miss Information, I met a guy one night when I was out with the girls. He took my number, told me the bar where he works, and asked me to stop by sometime. I never heard from him and never gave it another...

Jerald, 31 Why is a haunted house a good first-date spot? In general, intense experiences bring people closer — and being shocked and terrified definitely qualifies as an intense experience. Have you ever caught any customers going too far or fooling around, when they thought no one was looking? No....

The Source: Igor Hiller, Daily Nexus The Dilemma: “I have a great roommate. He’s an extremely clean, respectful, and studious guy. There’s this one little thing, though, that I just can’t handle, and I have no idea what to do about it… My roommate has earphones he uses...

I’m a sixty-seven-year-old woman, almost sixty-eight, who has been married four times — once widowed (with three kids in their forties who’ve turned out pretty well), divorced three times. I recently met someone online: forty-eight, a wealthy, educated man with two boys, twelve and fourteen. He...

The movie: I think you know the story, but in this 1992 film rendition we have Sadie Frost as Lucy Westerna, the vamp’s tramp, and Winona Ryder as Mina, the innocent visitor to Drac’s castle who reminds him a little too much of his long-dead lover. The scene: In this extended clip, you get...